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If you’re 40s or 50s and use exercise to cope with stress? Know that anything that elevates your heart rate and turns on your sympathetic nervous system (fight and flight) and is a form of stress.That's why after a long, stressful day at work, pounding your body with more stress is often NOT what your body actually needs. There’s a difference between “feeling” better and what your body ACTUALLY needs.Too much stress on top of stress just equals more stress. They do not cancel each other out.So if you're feeling tired and stressed from life, you can still exercise, but keep the volumes and intensities much lower and focus on things like mobility, breathing, and active recovery.Your focus would be more productive tapping into your parasympathetic nervous system (rest and digest) by focusing on heart rate recovery, working to bring it down as quickly as you can. If you didn't get enough sleep and had a long day at work, you shouldn't be training the same as if when you're at your best.Adding too much physical stress on top of too much mental stress will only make your fitness and health worse, not better.The truth is that not every workout has to be a test of how hard you can run yourself into the ground. Training, especially cardiovascular training can certainly be a powerful tool to improve your ability to handle mental stress, but… …only if it’s in the right amount.Training should be about building your body up and that takes more than just endlessly breaking it down. Remember:Your body was built to last, but you’ve got to treat it right. Sign up to my newsletter to learn more about staying fit and healthy in your 40s and 50s.Link in the comments.

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Mark Carolan

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This is excellent Toby - there is a need in some people to train hard to reduce the stress - but it can add to it as you've demonstrated

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Chris K.

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Another golden lesson here! Many a time I’ve smashed myself after not much sleep and a long, long few days at work. This is par for the course in the Military. It make sense to some degree…. But again I view fitness now as longevity not as work! 💪😄

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Daniel Glyde

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Love this Toby Swallow, so much value in this post. I used to exercise to feel better. And often found myself exhausted the next morning. We all need to manage our energy. And find other ways to relax and reset.

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What do you think about active recovery Toby Swallow.I now do more of this rather than complete relaxation and it has made a difference for me.It is hard to get back "Out there" when you get home late, but it has its benefits.What's your take?

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Great post Toby 👏

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Must listen to both body and mind 👍

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Simple answer to stress is don’t overthink, you can as much as you can do so don’t over exert beyond your capacity. The world is going to carry on with or without you

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Love this.. my mantra is D.I.E.T - Did I Eat Today. Fuel your body and soul to thrive..

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Gotta give the body what it needs, not just what we think it wants

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I had a dizzy spell earlier today. I said WTF. May have been lacking oxygen in my system.Great post as always, Brother.

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